Philly Matchmakers | 5 Holiday Questions Single Women Dread

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It’s the least wonderful time of the year… at least when you happen to be single in December. You’re excited for the festive parties and the delicious food that comes with the holiday season, but you’re so sick and tired of answering the same old questions whenever you go to see your family. If you’re single for the holidays, our Philly matchmakers know you’re likely dreading being asked one of the following questions.

5 Holiday Questions Single Women Dread

Are you one of the many single women in Philadelphia who’s dreading those invasive holiday questions?

Today, our Philly matchmakers are going to reveal the top questions single women hate being asked during the holiday season. If nothing else, this holiday article will let you know you’re not alone.

  1. Do you have a boyfriend?

No. But your thankful for that annoying reminder! Dating isn’t so simple in 2019. Furthermore, you don’t want to go through all the reasons why it’s so hard to find a boyfriend. Hmm, you don’t feel like rattling off the issues of ghosting, horrible dates, the dates that don’t happen at all and much more. But you do want to ask a question of your own. You want to ask your relatives why they think that boyfriends seem to grow on trees. Dating in 2019 is tough, and it will only get harder next year. The less you have to talk about it and defend yourself, the easier things would be.

  1. Have you been on any dates lately?

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It’s kind of a day by day type of thing. It’s also not the most fun and enjoyable topic to talk about during a holiday dinner. Seriously, it’s no wonder you don’t interrupt your family dinner to talk about your most recent horrible first date. Anyways, why does it matter to them?

  1. Can I set you up with someone?

Oh, really? Because dates set up by family always work out, right? Sorry, but you’re not sure that you totally believe this is the “perfect” guy for you. You don’t want to be set up. You can find your own dates, thank you very much. Just because you haven’t turned any of those dates into a meaningful relationship doesn’t mean that you’re not capable of finding dates on your own. You just haven’t met the right one yet.

  1. Are you doing the online dating thing?

You’re definitely ready to leave the holiday dinner party when you get asked this question. Does your well-meaning yet totally annoying Aunt Margie think that you’ve never, ever heard of online dating? Do they not get that it takes time to meet someone worthy of dating, especially online? Can everyone please just eat and stop asking me annoying questions? Ugh, better yet, is it time to leave yet?

  1. Are you being too picky with your dates?

This type of question is such a double-edged sword. On one hand, you totally get that you shouldn’t be too picky with your dates. On the other, you really don’t want to settle for someone you don’t want to be with. This question basically makes you all kinds of angry and frustrated. This is one of those questions that gets you boiling mad and makes you want to down some extra strong eggnog.

If you’re single for the holidays, you’re not alone. There are thousands of single women in Philadelphia who are the very same shoes. In other words, they’re dreading and preparing for the same annoying questions as you. Our Philly matchmakers know it’s easier said than done, but try to blow it off. Don’t let annoying Aunt Margie ruin the holiday get together for you. Have fun, mingle, change the subject, and do whatever you have to do to enjoy the holiday.

Ready to meet someone worthy of dating? Want to make finding love your New Year’s resolution? Contact our Philly matchmakers today and let us help. Let us you meet amazing singles in Philadelphia who are looking for true love too.

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