Villanova Matchmakers | 6 Signs He’s Not a Good Boyfriend

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As Villanova matchmakers, we hear it from clients all the time. They thought they landed a great guy but were highly disappointed a few months in.

When you first started dating, he was the best boyfriend in the world. But lately, well, you’re feeling doubts. You just can’t figure out what’s going on. You’re wondering if he’s lost complete interest in you and the relationship. Or perhaps he simply isn’t the guy you once thought he was.

Have you been having second thoughts about your guy? Wondering if it’s time to get out of this relationship?

6 Telltale Warning Signs He’s Not a Good Boyfriend

To help you figure that out, our Villanova matchmakers are going to show you the top warning signs of a bad boyfriend. If he does these things in the relationship, you need to walk away.

  1. He’s still entangled in his past relationship.

That goes without saying, right? The one exception here is, if you’re dating a guy who’s legitimately separated from his previous spouse and he’s simply waiting on the divorce papers. Otherwise, stay away from guys who are still attached to their ex. He will eventually break your heart.

  1. He’s emotionally closed off.

An early sign of a bad boyfriend is his disinterest in you and the relationship. He will not want to talk about the relationship or anything to do with love. He says he likes living in the present (seemingly when it comes to you). But interestingly enough, he still makes future plans about everything in life but your relationship.

  1. He loves taking selfies.

If you are checking out his social media profile and all you see are shirtless pictures in front of the mirror, you might want to jump ship. Selfies have become very popular today, leading many people to conduct studies on them. If a person takes a lot of pictures of themselves, they are likely to be self-absorbed. Definitely not the type of boyfriend you want to be with.

  1. He has a lot of secrets.

And most of those secrets are names of different girls. He may be chatting it up with them through social media platforms or speaking with them over text. And even if you ask him who these girls are or how he knows them, he just brushes the conversation off or avoids it altogether.

  1. He talks to his ex a lot.

They don’t have any kids or work together but your guy is in constant communication with his ex. He doesn’t have a valid reason why he’s still talking to her every day. When you confront him about it, he just says they are good friends.

  1. He’s always late.

He isn’t very punctual when it comes to the relationship. Even when he isn’t at work, he doesn’t answer your calls. He is always busy with his own life and doesn’t make you a priority. Even when you know he isn’t busy or doing anything, he doesn’t put any effort to be with you. When you finally get him to go out on date with you, he shows up 20 minutes late. You’re tired of feeling like you doesn’t make time for you.

How many of these signs do you see in your guy? Did you get stuck with a bad partner? Well, that doesn’t mean you have to stay with him. If he’s not a good partner for you, it’s time to walk away. You can find someone who treats you right and is ready for something serious. And our Villanova matchmakers can help you find them.

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded singles in Philadelphia, contact our Villanova matchmakers today and let us help you find true love. Let us help you find your Prince Charming.

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