Plymouth Meeting Matchmakers Reveal Signs He’s Not for You

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Want to know if the new guy in your life is worth your time? Our Plymouth Meeting matchmakers are going to let you in on a little secret. Shh! All you have to do is look at his social media activity.

Just from looking at his interest page or activity, we can find out a lot of information about his personality, his history, and even if he has good intentions to be in a relationship. There are certain behaviors that suggest a guy isn’t worth your time or energy.

Today, our Plymouth Meeting matchmakers are going to show you what his social media activity says about him. Get ready to find out where you stand and how to proceed with this guy you’re crushing.

Red Flags He’s Not the One for You

  1. He always adds girls.

In terms of what he actually does while he’s online, his behavior is another portal into his true personality and possibly his intentions regarding you. And it isn’t a good sign if he’s always adding new girls online. There are some people who troll their friends’ friends just to look for a potential partner and add them to their social page.

We’re not saying to give up on him if he has a lot of female friends. Oh, no – you don’t want to be that girl. Just beware if he’s adding girls every day.

  1. He loves selfies.

The situation with selfies is not black and white. We’ve all been guilty of taking pictures of ourselves, even if those pictures didn’t make it to Instagram. You don’t have to immediately write off a guy who has selfies on his Instagram account. That said, there’s a difference between a guy who takes an average amount of selfies and a guy who takes 20 every day.

If he’s in love with his selfies – to an unhealthy level – it’s a sign he may not be the guy you want. Why? Too many selfies could suggest that he’s obsessed with himself. If you end up with a self-obsessed partner, you’ll feel empty and drained in this one-sided relationship.

  1. He loves to argue with people.

We’re not saying being passionate is a bad thing. But it takes a certain type of person to be compatible with someone who’s overly argumentative and fiery. If your love interest is always arguing with someone online, it could mean that he’s not the type of guy you want to be in a relationship with.

And if he is, then the real question is whether or not you have the patience to put with someone who gets a kick out of starting arguments all the time. A little debate every now and then might mean he loves a good challenge. But Facebook fights very day, probably mean he’s got some problems… Problems you don’t need to deal with.

  1. He posts photos of his expensive lifestyle.

Social media has paved the way for the world to take bragging to a whole new level. There is nothing wrong with a little showing off here and there, but it’s a different story if he’s constantly showing off his expensive lifestyle.

Most people don’t realize it, but excessive social media bragging like this is actually a sign that a person is in constant need of validation. If your love interest is always bragging, it would seem he cares more about what people think of him. If your guy is always seeking validation, it means he’s not d in himself. And what does that mean for you? It means he’s likely to be jealous and possessive down the road.

How many of these signs do you see in your new love interest? Are you just wasting your time?

Are you tired of meeting guys with no relationship potential? Want to say goodbye to players, losers, and jerks once and for all?

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded single men in Philadelphia, contact our Plymouth Meeting matchmakers today. Let Philadelphia Singles Dating Service help you say goodbye to the frogs and hello to your very own Prince Charming.

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