KOP Matchmakers Reveal 5 Signs You’re Not in Love with Him
The mind is an interesting entity. It can be tricky and make you think you have gotten yourself into one thing when it’s really the complete opposite. Everyone badly wants to find a person to share life with. Everyone wants to find true love. But finding love isn’t easy.
The most difficult feelings for us, as human beings, to differentiate between are lust and love. They are very similar. It is all too common for people to think they are in love when in reality they are just in lust.
Today our Philly matchmakers here at Philadelphia Singles Dating Service will show you the telltale red flags signs you’re not really in love with him.
- You Get Stressed Out When You Are with Him
Love is supposed to be happy and stress-free. You should feel happy when you spend time with your boyfriend and get excited to see him. It shouldn’t be stressful or worrisome for you. You should have no feelings of anxiousness and sadness when you’re around him.
Although even the happiest relationships have their ups and downs, it is definitely not on an everyday basis. Happy couples do argue about being late for dinner or forgetting to run the trash out. If you start to feel like you would rather do anything else over spending time with him, then you don’t really love him.
- You Don’t Communicate
Sometimes in relationships, you can talk to each other without really doing any meaningful talking. Perfect example of this is being simply that the two of you are avoiding a tough topic or refusing to acknowledge each other’s feelings. If you don’t feel like you can openly discuss anything with your boyfriend, you are not really in love with him. If you actually were, you would feel safe talking about anything under the sun. You know he would never judge or criticize you for it. You know that they aren’t going anywhere, and they are in it through the good times and the bad ones.
- You Don’t See a Future with Him
When you are head over heels for someone, there is not even a thought of the relationship ending. You will want to cherish every second you spend together. You will definitely envision a future together, whatever that may look for the two of you. There will be vacations planned in advance and movies to see on the weekend. If you don’t see this relationship lasting, it’s a huge indicator that you are not really in love with him. This is probably the case of lust not love.
- You Don’t Say I Love You to Him
When you are in love with someone, you can’t say those magic words enough. Not only will say them, you will show them as much as you can. You simply cannot help yourself. You want the whole world to know that you are head over heels for your boyfriend. On the contrary, when you are not actually in love, there won’t be any desire to express it. And if you say it, it won’t feel genuine or true. It will feel forced. You will know the difference, the heart and your intuition will never lie to you. Make sure you listen to both of them.
- You Don’t Care What He Does
Let’s be honest here, women can be a little obsessive when it comes to love. Women get attached more easily than men and fall very hard. Women want to know their boyfriends whereabouts all the time. If you really love someone, you want to know what they are doing and who they are with. If you don’t love your boyfriend, you won’t care what he’s up to.
So tell us, how does your love meter measure up? Are you totally head over heels or just lusting?
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